Wonderful Things that Are Out of Your Control:
Because there are so many things that demand our focus and energy it is wonderful to realize how many things are absolutely out of our control.

The Weather
The Cause of Autism
How little money you have and how much therapy costs
The God List - There are a lot of different ways that you can view your new life. I am deeply envious of those with such a deep sense of faith that they never view hardships as anything other than a path to reward. I have found that as much as the contemplation of God, Buddha, or Darwin entertain me I usually have to find my solace in the everyday. It is the unasked for kiss from Miles, the everyday love notes from my husband, and watching Zen ride his bike that get me through everyday. Here are a few ways that you might find peace:

Faith / Heaven - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faith

Karma - I want to be really good at being good so that I get a “prefect kid” in the next life. - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma

Science - See the New Atheists - http://newatheists.org/